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A Fallible Son, Husband, Father & Man

Thus let me live, unseen, unknown;    Thus unlamented let me die; Steal from the world, and not a stone Tell where I lie.                                   -  Alexander Pope  There once lived a man named He. He was also referred to as Him.  He lived in one of the most remote parts of a country.  A non-existential place, amidst existence. Nothing travelled to this place. Not even news. Nothing significant happened here, good or bad. When one of the natives left for the nearest town, there would be a cry fest. It was nothing short of seeing off a soldier leaving for the battlefield. And the person would be only a little more than an hour's distance away! So, He grew up in this setting in a joint household with a river for a backyard. The only lives people knew of here, were their own. Everything required for living was obtained from the weekly market....

Sometimes or Often, Nothing Can Save The Day!

On a dull Leicester street, a group of men have been congregating since morning. The sentiments were sombre although mingled with some respite and a lot of confusion. Someone was lost but someone survived. Hundreds of miles across the globe, curfew was relaxed in Thoubal town, a sharp feature in the bend of the Himalayas. A group of women in distress, frantically searched the family albums for what has been lost for ever. The thread connecting the two events – a tragic plane crash. Source: Getty Images A curious if not voyeuristic reaction is to demand more of the above scenes. But there are more such events unravelling every passing second. Only, sometimes has become often. You work towards a certain goal, an aspiration, an idea of happiness, a pursuit of excellence or a unity of souls, as in the case of a couple about to restart a life of togetherness with their kids after an enforced separation. But calamity strikes, strikes the good and the bad equally. You walk out in the mo...

Rain in the Deccan!

(This is a humble attempt to mimic my childhood hero's writing style. Guess who?) I can smell the earth. The breeze is gentle and soothing this afternoon. The wind chimes from Bindra’s fuels the composing environment. The tropical quartet of the warbler, the ashy prinia, a koel & magpies out on the neem tree are all clamour today.  Many years ago, Kausalya, our former maid, had planted it as a house-warming gift. It still remains the best gift we have ever received.  In stark contrast to this is the environment this side of my French window. The rain clouds have dimmed the lights in the room. My book shelf, which usually holds my eyes up, fails to cheer me up. The books look like they need rest from resting.  Back outdoors, the weight of grey sky seems too heavy on earth. My sleepy street, in my not so sleepy town, is quieter than usual. Rarely a vehicle goes by to evidence any human presence. The birds, wind chimes, the breeze and the neem tree render the atmo...